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    Paul
    Keymaster

    Welcome!

    #44638
    Tim
    Moderator

    I am looking for ideas on what others think about being a sponsor. It would be good to collect some of your thoughts and interests on putting together some Zoom working sessions for those who want to sponsor but are unsure when or how to begin.

    Do you know the qualities of being a sponsor?

    What is the primary role of a sponsor?

    When sponsoring a sponsee, who should take the initiative to begin the step work? Sponsor or Sponsee Explain?

    Does a recovery addict need more than a sponsor? Y/N If so, who are they?

    How long into recovery do you feel someone should be in their 12-step program before they begin to sponsor someone?
    After step 1? Step 3? Step 4? Step 5? Step 9?

    Do you think a plan is needed when working the 12 steps?
    That contains, at minimum, the following basic outline:
    Books being used (Big Blue, SA White, etc.)
    Meeting day(s) time(s)
    Review of the previous week
    Go over the current lesson
    Questions
    The sponsor shared their experience when they completed that step. Notes any discoveries found worth journaling.

    #45910
    Linda Picchioni
    Participant

    Lots of good questions.

    I think a sponsor should have completed the 12 steps. Be active in fellowship(s). Have a sponsor themselves.

    The primary roll of a sponsor is to be committed to the roll, be an honest friend to the sponsee, be up front about expectations they have from their sponsee. (Days/times to meet/phone. Books they will use.)

    Openness between sponsor-sponsee relationship that if circumstances change, the sponsee is free to find another sponsor.

    I do think that more experienced sponsors could formulate an outline, possibly even have a quarterly training hour for those who sponsor or are interested in becoming a sponsor.

    Just my thoughts.
    Linda

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