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Thursday, March 12th

The Lenten Recovery Challenge

Module 23 of 47

Thursday, March 12th

To complete today's challenge, find time to prayerfully read through the reflections below, attend a recovery meeting, and share what's on your heart and mind on today's discussion board.

REFLECT

Good evening, Friend
October 16
Daily Reflection
Saint of the Day
Daily Reflection
Friday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time
Friday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time
Saint of the Day
Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque
Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque

Friday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time

Jesus has much to say regarding whom to fear in today’s Gospel reading. He tells us not to be afraid of those who can kill our bodies here on Earth. This is completely counterintuitive as we are instinctually wired to protect ourselves when threatened. Fear is a powerful force, as those of us with addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments know. The Big Book explains that we are “driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity.” Fear responses are often described as fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. The “fight” response occurs when you face any perceived threat with aggression. The “flight” response occurs when you run from danger. The “freeze” response occurs when you cannot move or act against a threat. And the “fawn” response occurs when you try to please the threat to avoid conflict.

So, what is the antidote for not fearing those who can kill the body, as Jesus tells us today? In recovery, we learn that it is having a spiritual awakening. We need a paradigm shift to turn from self-protective fear to trust in an all-powerful God. As we read in Proverbs 9:10, “Fear of the Lord is the beginning of Wisdom.” Before we can understand how the fear of the Lord leads to wisdom, we need to define what the Bible means by “fear” in this context. In the Bible, the word translated as “fear” can mean several things. It can refer to the terror one feels in a frightening situation (Deuteronomy 2:25). It can mean “respect” in the way a servant fears his master and serves him faithfully (Joshua 24:14). And it can denote the reverence or awe a person feels in the presence of greatness (Isaiah 6:5). The fear of the Lord is a combination of all of these.  

Jesus wants us to place all our trust in Him without self-protective fear. He revealed His merciful love in complete self-giving on the cross. This same love remains with us through the power of the Holy Spirit in the sacraments. The Eucharist is perfect love, and we know from Saint John that perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18). While receiving this grace is “free,” we must remember that it came with the greatest cost of Jesus’ life. The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass reminds us of this. Jesus wants us to inherit His Kingdom, while also accepting that doing so carries with it a great responsibility. We hold the truth that, while Jesus is the Lamb of God, merciful and gentle, He is also the Lion of Judah, the just and righteous judge.

 

Reflection Questions

  • How do you guard against living out of self-protective fear? What can you do to help ensure you don’t fall into self-protective fear today?
  • How would you describe your personal spiritual awakening?

 

Daily Mass Readings

First Reading: Ephesians 1:11-14
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 33:1-2, 4-5, 12-13
Gospel: Luke 12:1-7

Reflection by Stephanie N.

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Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque

Audio Reflection

(1647-1690) — The “Apostle of the Sacred Heart” was a serious child born and raised in eastern France. Her father died when she was eight, and she suffered four years of paralysis from rheumatic fever, vowing to enter religious life when miraculously healed by the Blessed Virgin Mary. At 17, after forgetting her vow and considering marriage by attending a ball, she had a vision of Jesus, scourged and bloody. She shortly thereafter joined the Order of the Visitation. Margaret received several visions of Jesus regarding devotion to His Sacred Heart that many dismissed as delusions, but she was supported and encouraged by her spiritual director, Saint Claude de la Colombiere.

Jesus made 12 promises to Saint Margaret for those who honor His Sacred Heart. Look them up. How can these promises apply to your recovery?

“Be humble towards God and gentle with your neighbor. Judge and accuse no one but yourself, and ever excuse others. Speak of God always to praise and glorify Him, speak of your neighbor only with respect — do not speak of yourself at all, either well or ill” (Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque).

Reflection by Brad Farmer

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Saint Daniel Comboni
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Discuss

Share your thoughts and connect with others on this journey.

A and A F 7 months ago
Thanks, Kevin. Excellent reflection. The first reading spoke to me also. I think of my siblings and their separation from God more easily than I reflect on what God is trying to tell me about my own behavior. Taking their inventory as it were instead of “changing the things I can.” God, grant me the grace to look inside myself and see the ways in which You are calling me closer to You and Your ways. I’m a work in progress, and I need You.
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Richard LaPilusa 7 months ago
Looking back on my addiction, I do now recall God speaking to me through my conscience, but I failed to listen because I had let my addiction have a stronghold around my soul and my life. Once I finally listened, God delivered me from my addiction, and has kept me sober—and I pray everyday he keeps me sober!
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MARYANNE Hanger 7 months ago
After 45 years if binge drinking, I finally realized with Gods help that I couldn't do it on my own and that I was drinking myself to death. I have always prayed to God to help me stop by binges, and this time I knew I had to surrender completely to God who put just the right people into my path who helped me come into AA.

When I came into recovery in AA, did the steps (specifically step 4, 5 and 9) that I was able to repair the relationship I had with God. I always had a relation with God but couldn't get it to the beautiful one I had with him in my youth and early teens. After completing the steps I mentioned my relationship with God has soared to a level of beauty far surpassing that of my earlier years. Part of the new growth was joining CIR on Ash Wednesday 2026, and an outpouring of the Holy Spirit into my soul during a prayer session on February 22, 2026 during which I actually felt my heart/soul change.
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