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Day 9

The Pathway to Recovery

Module 9 of 90

Day 9

To finish today's module, listen to the day's recording, complete the highlighted prayers, reflections, and activities, and share what's on your heart and mind on today's discussion board.

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PRAY

Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change
the courage to change the things I can
and the wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time,
enjoying one moment at a time,
accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.

Taking, as Jesus did,
this sinful world as it is,
not as I would have it.

Trusting that You will make all things right,
if I surrender to Your will.

That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
and supremely happy with You forever
in the next. Amen.

Third Step Prayer

God, I offer myself to Thee – to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt.
Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will.
Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of Life.
May I do Thy will always!

Discover more prayers to strengthen your recovery and faith.

REFLECT

Good morning, Friend
October 14
Daily Reflection
Saint of the Day
Daily Reflection
Wednesday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time
Wednesday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time
Saint of the Day
Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr
Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr

Wednesday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time

In today’s first reading, Paul reveals the contrast between living in the flesh and living in the Spirit. This passage speaks directly to the heart of addiction and recovery. The works of the flesh—immorality, idolatry, jealousy, selfishness, and drunkenness—are all too familiar to those of us who have been trapped in addiction, compulsion, or unhealthy attachment. Early in my recovery, I thought that simply quitting alcohol and drugs was enough to make things “okay” in my life and marriage. But I was still clinging to living in the flesh, and this only led to more destruction and pain. True sobriety requires full transformation—a renewal of the mind. We cannot claim sobriety just because we stop engaging in our drug or unhealthy behavior of choice.

In recovery, Step 1 is to admit our powerlessness over our addiction and the unmanageability of our lives. This aligns with Paul’s warning that, without the Spirit of God, we remain enslaved to the works of the flesh. Spiritual sickness manifests in drinking bouts, anger, envy, and selfishness, pulling us further away from the Kingdom of God. The warning is clear: those who remain bound by these behaviors will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Even in the rooms of AA, I had to part ways with some fellows because, although they weren’t drinking, their actions were leading to a life of destruction through perverse conversations, lust, materialism, and worldly pursuits. I was tempted by such conversations and behaviors, and I realized that I needed to part with them to prevent being led back into enslavement. It was a reminder that sobriety is not just about what we stop doing but how we choose to live in every area of our lives.

Through the Twelve Steps and Catholic in Recovery, we invite Jesus into our recovery, finding true and lasting freedom not just from addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments but all the works of the “flesh.” Paul contrasts the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, and self-control—with the destructive works of the flesh. In a similar manner, when we embrace the true heart of recovery, which goes beyond merely being sober or abstinent, we come to experience the fruits of the Spirit listed by Paul. By surrendering and allowing Christ to reign in our lives, we experience a new freedom, a new happiness, and a new life led by the Spirit of God.

 

Reflection Questions

  • What works of the flesh are you still clinging to? How can you invite Jesus to break these bonds and replace them with the works of the Spirit?
  • In what ways have you experienced the freedom of living in the Spirit as you’ve worked your 12-step program?

 

Daily Mass Readings

First Reading: Galatians 5:18-25
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 1:1-2, 3, 4 AND 6
Gospel: Luke 11:42-46

Reflection by Juan Carlos P.

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Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr

Audio Reflection

(d.c.223) — The man who was to be elected the sixteenth pope spent time as a slave before being ransomed and freed in Rome through the initiative of Pope Saint Victor I. He became caretaker of a major cemetery and advisor to Pope Zephyrinus, whom Callistus succeeded after his death. The papacy of Callistus was marked by schism over his mercy with respect to readmitting repentant sinners to Communion and his insistence that differences in economic class were no barrier to marriage. He was martyred, possibly by an anti-Christian mob, during the reign of the Emperor Alexander Severus.

It may be a mere coincidence, but it is interesting that this pope of mercy is also the patron of cemetery workers. Our faith deals with the Resurrection. Our recovery works to bring the (spiritually) dead back to life. How do we treat those in our community who relapse? How do we learn to guard our own recovery from relapse?

“If offences abound, then, let mercy also abound; for with the Lord there is mercy, and with Him is plenteous redemption” (Pope Saint Callistus I).

Reflection by Brad Farmer

Other Saints

Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa
Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa
October 13, 2025
Saint Carlo Acutis
Saint Carlo Acutis
October 12, 2025
Saint Philip the Evangelist, Deacon
Saint Philip the Evangelist, Deacon
October 11, 2025
Saint Daniel Comboni
Saint Daniel Comboni
October 10, 2025
Blesseds John Adams, Robert Dibdale, and John Lowe, Priests and Martyrs
Blesseds John Adams, Robert Dibdale, and John Lowe, Priests and Martyrs
October 8, 2025
Our Lady of the Rosary
Our Lady of the Rosary
October 7, 2025
Saint Bruno, Priest
Saint Bruno, Priest
October 6, 2025
Saint Maria Faustina of the Most Blessed Sacrament, Virgin
Saint Maria Faustina of the Most Blessed Sacrament, Virgin
October 5, 2025
Saint Francis of Assisi
Saint Francis of Assisi
October 4, 2025

ACT

  • Complete the Barriers to Belief Exercise
  • Practice the five daily habits:
    1. Start your day with prayer
    2. Attend a recovery meeting (click here to find a meeting)
    3. Connect with people in recovery outside of meetings
    4. Read some recovery literature and Scripture
    5. Give thanks to God at the end of the day
  • Schedule a 15-minute call with a CIR representative

The optional session can be conducted over Zoom or the phone at a time most convenient for you. In the session, you can expect the following:

  • A friendly welcome to the Catholic in Recovery community
  • An overview of how to best experience CIR+’s many resources
  • An opportunity for us to get to know you as a special member of our community (the discussion will be completely confidential and you’re welcome to share as little or as much as you’re comfortable)

Explore

Dive deeper with these additional resources to support your journey.

Webinar
WebinarJubilee of Hope: Finding Light in the Darkness of AddictionView
Podcast
PodcastAddressing Catholic Misconceptions About 12-Step RecoveryView
Article
ArticleHow to Remain Hopeful & Joy-filled in RecoveryView
Article
ArticlePray, Hope, & Don’t Worry So Much!View
Article
ArticleHow to Take Custody of the Mind & Stay on the Path of RecoveryView
Article
ArticleFinding Peace & Healing in the Midst of a Loved One’s AlcoholismView

Discuss

Share your thoughts and connect with others on this journey.

Rachelle Shands 7 months ago
The podcast educated me regarding sponsors. As well as what rock/high bottom could look like for addicts.l. Thank you.
Curtis White 7 months ago
The Barriers to Belief exercise couldn't have come at a better time! Highly recommend it if you're struggling with fear and are grappling with Step 1.
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