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Day 21

The Pathway to Recovery

Module 21 of 90

Day 21

To finish today's module, find time to pray, read through the below reflections, complete the five daily habits, attend a recovery meeting, and share what's on your heart and mind on today's discussion board.

PRAY

Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change
the courage to change the things I can
and the wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time,
enjoying one moment at a time,
accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.

Taking, as Jesus did,
this sinful world as it is,
not as I would have it.

Trusting that You will make all things right,
if I surrender to Your will.

That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
and supremely happy with You forever
in the next. Amen.

Third Step Prayer

God, I offer myself to Thee – to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt.
Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will.
Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of Life.
May I do Thy will always!

Discover more prayers to strengthen your recovery and faith.

REFLECT

Good evening, Friend
October 16
Daily Reflection
Saint of the Day
Daily Reflection
Friday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time
Friday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time
Saint of the Day
Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque
Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque

Friday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time

Jesus has much to say regarding whom to fear in today’s Gospel reading. He tells us not to be afraid of those who can kill our bodies here on Earth. This is completely counterintuitive as we are instinctually wired to protect ourselves when threatened. Fear is a powerful force, as those of us with addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments know. The Big Book explains that we are “driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity.” Fear responses are often described as fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. The “fight” response occurs when you face any perceived threat with aggression. The “flight” response occurs when you run from danger. The “freeze” response occurs when you cannot move or act against a threat. And the “fawn” response occurs when you try to please the threat to avoid conflict.

So, what is the antidote for not fearing those who can kill the body, as Jesus tells us today? In recovery, we learn that it is having a spiritual awakening. We need a paradigm shift to turn from self-protective fear to trust in an all-powerful God. As we read in Proverbs 9:10, “Fear of the Lord is the beginning of Wisdom.” Before we can understand how the fear of the Lord leads to wisdom, we need to define what the Bible means by “fear” in this context. In the Bible, the word translated as “fear” can mean several things. It can refer to the terror one feels in a frightening situation (Deuteronomy 2:25). It can mean “respect” in the way a servant fears his master and serves him faithfully (Joshua 24:14). And it can denote the reverence or awe a person feels in the presence of greatness (Isaiah 6:5). The fear of the Lord is a combination of all of these.  

Jesus wants us to place all our trust in Him without self-protective fear. He revealed His merciful love in complete self-giving on the cross. This same love remains with us through the power of the Holy Spirit in the sacraments. The Eucharist is perfect love, and we know from Saint John that perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18). While receiving this grace is “free,” we must remember that it came with the greatest cost of Jesus’ life. The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass reminds us of this. Jesus wants us to inherit His Kingdom, while also accepting that doing so carries with it a great responsibility. We hold the truth that, while Jesus is the Lamb of God, merciful and gentle, He is also the Lion of Judah, the just and righteous judge.

 

Reflection Questions

  • How do you guard against living out of self-protective fear? What can you do to help ensure you don’t fall into self-protective fear today?
  • How would you describe your personal spiritual awakening?

 

Daily Mass Readings

First Reading: Ephesians 1:11-14
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 33:1-2, 4-5, 12-13
Gospel: Luke 12:1-7

Reflection by Stephanie N.

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Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque

Audio Reflection

(1647-1690) — The “Apostle of the Sacred Heart” was a serious child born and raised in eastern France. Her father died when she was eight, and she suffered four years of paralysis from rheumatic fever, vowing to enter religious life when miraculously healed by the Blessed Virgin Mary. At 17, after forgetting her vow and considering marriage by attending a ball, she had a vision of Jesus, scourged and bloody. She shortly thereafter joined the Order of the Visitation. Margaret received several visions of Jesus regarding devotion to His Sacred Heart that many dismissed as delusions, but she was supported and encouraged by her spiritual director, Saint Claude de la Colombiere.

Jesus made 12 promises to Saint Margaret for those who honor His Sacred Heart. Look them up. How can these promises apply to your recovery?

“Be humble towards God and gentle with your neighbor. Judge and accuse no one but yourself, and ever excuse others. Speak of God always to praise and glorify Him, speak of your neighbor only with respect — do not speak of yourself at all, either well or ill” (Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque).

Reflection by Brad Farmer

Other Saints

Saint Teresa of Jesus, Virgin and Doctor of the Church
Saint Teresa of Jesus, Virgin and Doctor of the Church
October 15, 2025
Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr
Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr
October 14, 2025
Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa
Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa
October 13, 2025
Saint Carlo Acutis
Saint Carlo Acutis
October 12, 2025
Saint Philip the Evangelist, Deacon
Saint Philip the Evangelist, Deacon
October 11, 2025
Saint Daniel Comboni
Saint Daniel Comboni
October 10, 2025
Blesseds John Adams, Robert Dibdale, and John Lowe, Priests and Martyrs
Blesseds John Adams, Robert Dibdale, and John Lowe, Priests and Martyrs
October 8, 2025
Our Lady of the Rosary
Our Lady of the Rosary
October 7, 2025
Saint Bruno, Priest
Saint Bruno, Priest
October 6, 2025

ACT

  • Practice the five daily habits:
    1. Start your day with prayer
    2. Attend a recovery meeting (click here to find a meeting)
    3. Connect with people in recovery outside of meetings
    4. Read some recovery literature and Scripture
    5. Give thanks to God at the end of the day

Discuss

Share your thoughts and connect with others on this journey.

Scott Bailey 5 months ago
Today’s reflection really hits home. I’ve known I needed help for a long time but refused to admit outwardly I had a problem. I was scared of what people would think. Afraid of how my friends would react. Ashamed. I finally accepted the fact that I could not do this on my own and reached out for help. It was like a huge weight had been lifted. The out pouring of love and support has been huge.
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