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Day 9

The Pathway to Recovery

Module 9 of 90

Day 9

To finish today's module, listen to the day's recording, complete the highlighted prayers, reflections, and activities, and share what's on your heart and mind on today's discussion board.

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PRAY

Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change
the courage to change the things I can
and the wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time,
enjoying one moment at a time,
accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.

Taking, as Jesus did,
this sinful world as it is,
not as I would have it.

Trusting that You will make all things right,
if I surrender to Your will.

That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
and supremely happy with You forever
in the next. Amen.

Third Step Prayer

God, I offer myself to Thee – to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt.
Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will.
Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of Life.
May I do Thy will always!

Discover more prayers to strengthen your recovery and faith.

REFLECT

Good afternoon, Friend
October 22
Daily Reflection
Saint of the Day
Daily Reflection
Thursday of the Twenty-Ninth Week in Ordinary Time
Thursday of the Twenty-Ninth Week in Ordinary Time
Saint of the Day
Saint John Paul II, Pope
Saint John Paul II, Pope

Thursday of the Twenty-Ninth Week in Ordinary Time

As I ponder today’s first reading, I can almost see Saint Paul kneeling before the Father, imploring and petitioning Him on our behalf. Saint Paul specifically requests God the Father to strengthen us “with power through His Spirit in the inner self and that Christ may dwell in [our] hearts through faith” (Ephesians 3:16-17). What does this do for our interior? Saint Paul explains that “being rooted and grounded in love, [we] may have power to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that [we] may be filled with the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:17-19).

Saint Paul’s prayer connects our recovery journey to Step 11: “Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.” In God’s merciful love for us and “in accord with the riches of His Glory,” the Catechism gives us even more practical guidance on how to make a start and grow in the spiritual life as we seek to maintain our conscious contact with God (Ephesians 3: 16). The Catechism reads, “The Sermon on the Mount is teaching for life, the Our Father is a prayer; but in both the one and the other the Spirit of the Lord gives new form to our desires, those inner movements that animate our lives. Jesus teaches us this new life by his words; he teaches us to ask for it by our prayer. The rightness of our life in him will depend on the rightness of our prayer” (CCC 2764).

Christian prayer that reforms our desires, as Jesus modeled and taught His disciples, is therefore critical to our recovery journey if we are to attain true freedom in this life and supreme happiness with Him forever in the next. As people healing from addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments, prayer, especially in union with the powerful intercession of our Blessed Mother, is the conduit of grace by which we recover our true identity as children of God. By orienting our interior to Him, we find the path to eternal life and, in turn, assist Jesus in setting “the earth on fire” for the love of God (Luke 12:49).

 

Reflection Questions 

  • How can you improve your conscious contact with God to get to know Him better? Does your prayer practice include speaking (prayer) and listening (meditation)?
  • Saint Thomas Aquinas wrote, “The Lord’s Prayer is the most perfect of prayers…In it we ask, not only for all the things we can rightly desire, but also in the sequence that they should be desired (Summa Theologiae). How could this perspective on the Lord’s prayer influence your personal and communal prayer life in recovery?

 

Daily Mass Readings

First Reading: Ephesians 3:14-21
Responsorial Psalm:  Psalm 33:1-2, 4-5, 11-12, 18-19
Gospel: Luke 12:49-53

Reflection by Talitha R.

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Saint John Paul II, Pope

Audio Reflection

(1920-2005) — Karol Wojtyla, the third child of Polish parents, lost his entire immediate family by age 20. He was interested in acting as a youth and was introduced to Carmelite spirituality as a young man. Karol worked in a quarry during World War II to avoid deportation to Germany and took clandestine classes at the seminary in Krakow. He was ordained a priest, eventually named bishop, then cardinal, and was elected the 264th pope, serving just longer than 26 years. Deeply devoted to Mary, the Rosary, and the Eucharist, he stood up to Communism, taught the “Theology of the Body,” and defended human life and dignity.

Saint John Paul II wrote an Apostolic Letter, Salvifici Doloris, on the meaning of suffering. “Down through the centuries and generations it has been seen that in suffering there is concealed a particular power that draws a person interiorly close to Christ, a special grace.” Where can you see this principle at work in your recovery?

“We are not the sum of our weaknesses and failures, we are the sum of the Father’s love for us and our real capacity to become the image of his Son” (Pope Saint John Paul II, World Youth Day 2002).

Reflection by Brad Farmer

Other Saints

Saint Laura of Saint Catherine of Siena
Saint Laura of Saint Catherine of Siena
October 21, 2025
Saint Maria Bertilla Boscardin
Saint Maria Bertilla Boscardin
October 20, 2025
Saint Paul of the Cross, Priest
Saint Paul of the Cross, Priest
October 19, 2025
Saint Luke, Evangelist
Saint Luke, Evangelist
October 18, 2025
Saint Ignatius of Antioch, Bishop and Martyr
Saint Ignatius of Antioch, Bishop and Martyr
October 17, 2025
Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque
Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque
October 16, 2025
Saint Teresa of Jesus, Virgin and Doctor of the Church
Saint Teresa of Jesus, Virgin and Doctor of the Church
October 15, 2025
Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr
Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr
October 14, 2025
Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa
Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa
October 13, 2025

ACT

  • Complete the Barriers to Belief Exercise
  • Practice the five daily habits:
    1. Start your day with prayer
    2. Attend a recovery meeting (click here to find a meeting)
    3. Connect with people in recovery outside of meetings
    4. Read some recovery literature and Scripture
    5. Give thanks to God at the end of the day
  • Schedule a 15-minute call with a CIR representative

The optional session can be conducted over Zoom or the phone at a time most convenient for you. In the session, you can expect the following:

  • A friendly welcome to the Catholic in Recovery community
  • An overview of how to best experience CIR+’s many resources
  • An opportunity for us to get to know you as a special member of our community (the discussion will be completely confidential and you’re welcome to share as little or as much as you’re comfortable)

Explore

Dive deeper with these additional resources to support your journey.

Webinar
WebinarJubilee of Hope: Finding Light in the Darkness of AddictionView
Podcast
PodcastAddressing Catholic Misconceptions About 12-Step RecoveryView
Article
ArticleHow to Remain Hopeful & Joy-filled in RecoveryView
Article
ArticlePray, Hope, & Don’t Worry So Much!View
Article
ArticleHow to Take Custody of the Mind & Stay on the Path of RecoveryView
Article
ArticleFinding Peace & Healing in the Midst of a Loved One’s AlcoholismView

Discuss

Share your thoughts and connect with others on this journey.

Rachelle Shands 7 months ago
The podcast educated me regarding sponsors. As well as what rock/high bottom could look like for addicts.l. Thank you.
Curtis White 7 months ago
The Barriers to Belief exercise couldn't have come at a better time! Highly recommend it if you're struggling with fear and are grappling with Step 1.
Preston 3 days ago
Today's daily reflection talked about receiving the gift of recovery. When I think back on my journey, I can see how for so long I was trying to do it all on my own. I would see all the people and the resources that God placed in my life to help me and I would just sort of look from afar, take what I could without having to really open myself up, and then try to incorporate what I learned into my own life on my own terms by my own willpower. When I finally gave in to the truth that I need community to overcome addiction, and especially when I started being more fully open about it, my whole recovery changed. I realize now I was keeping the door of my heart shut, closing out those around me because of shame and fear, and consequently I was also closing out God. He wants to shine his light into that darkness, to heal the damage that was done. But He is so gentle, He doesn't force His way in. I had to learn to open my heart to receive that gift of His grace. Attending meetings frequently and being more open to those groups helped me to do that. By receiving the people and resources that God had placed in my life, I learned better to receive Him. I still have a long way to go in my recovery, but I feel I'm walking much closer with Him this time. Thank God for CIR
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