Today’s Gospel reading reveals the transformative power of humility and honesty. The chief priests and elders question Jesus, not out of a sincere desire for truth but to protect their pride and position. When Jesus turns the question back on them, they choose evasion over honesty, fearing the judgment of others. This was me. I too cared more about appearances than truth and honesty. I too was driven by pride, ego, and self righteousness, just like the chief priests and elders.

When I first came into recovery, I had to admit that I was powerless over alcohol (as well as drugs and the desire for control) and that my life had become unmanageable. Yet, even then, I lied. I feared judgment in the rooms of AA, pretending I was better than others. I was still trying to fool God and avoid the painful reality of my addictions and alcoholic behavior. That dishonesty made things much worse and my addictions only increased as I reached an ever lower bottom. True sobriety began only when I completely surrendered. I had to let go of my fear of others’ opinions, my need to fit in, and the false image I had built of myself. Brutal honesty with God, myself, and my fellows in recovery was my path to freedom. It wasn’t easy—facing the truth never is. But it was the only way to heal.

In recovery, we can find freedom from the exhausting need to explain ourselves or be liked by everyone. If we’re honest with God and keep our side of the street clean, we no longer have to carry the weight of others’ opinions. Jesus’ response to the Pharisees reminds us that peace comes from standing firm in truth and not from appeasing the world. Christ has given us authority to bring hope to the brokenhearted and testify to His grace. Let us embrace this calling with humility, honesty, and the courage to live authentically in Him.

Reflection Questions

• What has kept you from being completely honest with God about your addictions, compulsions, or unhealthy attachments?
• How has the fear of others’ opinions kept you from reaching out for help in recovery?

Daily Mass Readings

First Reading: Numbers 24:2-7, 15-17a
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 25:4-5ab, 6 and 7bc, 8-9
Gospel: Matthew 21:23-27

Reflection by Juan Carlos P.