What does this mean for those in recovery from addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments? First, we must come to realize that nothing on this earth lasts, including the feeling we chase when we act out in our compulsive behavior. As we find freedom from the substances and behaviors upon which we were dependent, it can be easy to resort to other seemingly less destructive substances or behaviors as a substitute, sometimes without even realizing it. Therefore, we gather in general recovery meetings to understand the wholeness of our spiritual condition through the shared experience of our fellow brothers and sisters.

Furthermore, it is often the case that we must witness the collapse of our own kingdom before awakening to the Kingdom of God. In 12-step recovery, we refer to this as a spiritual awakening. It is through the realization of our own powerlessness that the Son of Man can stake a claim to our lives. In fact, Jesus continues with a warning that each of us can relate to:

“Beware that your hearts do not become drowsy
from carousing and drunkenness
and the anxieties of daily life,
and that day catch you by surprise like a trap.”

The Twelve Steps of addiction recovery prepare us to stand before our Lord and structure our lives, one day at a time, and seek Him and His Kingdom for our ultimate fulfillment. The Power which we seek to direct our will and our lives is the same Power we seek as our Daily Bread—it is an enduring power that lasts.

Advent begins a season to shift our sights from the chaos of this passing world and the fleeting temptations of short-term satisfaction. As we approach the Nativity of the Lord at Christmas, we calibrate our focus on the Son of Man who reveals the love of God in our lives. We await our Lord’s coming with hope and patience, knowing that His presence withstands whatever chaos we may experience in this life. Let’s continue to ask God that we may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him forever in the next.

Reflection Questions

• How have chaos and the collapse of your own personal kingdom brought you closer to God?
• How do you apply the principles of 12-step recovery to keep you from substituting one compulsive behavior with another?
• How will you be spiritually preparing yourself for the coming of the Lord this Advent?

Sunday Mass Readings

First Reading: Jeremiah 33:14-16
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 25:4-5, 8-9, 10, 14
Second Reading: 1 Thessalonians 3:12—4:2
Gospel: Luke 21:25-28, 34-36

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