The fellowship of Al-Anon also became a teacher for me, reminding me that “our qualifiers are our best teachers.” Forgiveness is not a one-time event but a daily choice to remain in the flow of grace. As Saint John Chrysostom wrote, Christ Himself is “the fountain and root of all virtues…not keeping within himself the wealth of these blessings, but pouring it forth upon all others…and even after the outpourings still remaining full.”
The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous echoes this truth: “If you have a resentment you want to be free of, pray for the person you resent. Ask for their health, their prosperity, their happiness…even if you don’t mean it at first, do it daily. In time you will find your heart changing, and bitterness will give way to compassion and love.” This practice, though difficult, draws us into the freedom Jesus promises.
Scripture assures us that “if we love one another, God remains in us, and his love is brought to perfection in us” (1 John 4:12). Our Blessed Mother is a great example in that she partook fully of the graces of her Son. As a result of her sinlessness, her actions were more meritorious. Because she was unhindered by obstacles (or sin) to grace, her freedom was greater. That is what “freedom in Christ” looks like.
Reflection Questions
- Have you ever prayed for the health, prosperity, and happiness of someone you resent? What happened in your heart?
- How do you understand and experience freedom in Christ?
Daily Mass Readings
First Reading: Colossians 3:12-17
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 150:1b-2, 3-4, 5-6
Gospel: Luke 6:27-38
Reflection by Marcia G.