When you completed Step 4, did you get help from your Sponsor or complete step 4 on your own?
As Catholics, we believe in the power of reconciliation; Catholic in Recovery has a pamphlet about reconciliation for anyone who may need a refresher on the sacrament. A part of step 4 is to confess your sins/wrongdoings to someone other than God.
Have you done this, or is this still a process you need guidance on from a sponsor or priest?
I completed Step 4 with my sponsor and then by going to confession. Working step 4 takes time, must be done diligently, and as I went through it, I was overwhelmed by all my character defects that were uncovered. A thorough Step 4 is the hardest exam of conscience I every went through. But even before I went to confession, I knew God was meeting me in my wounds.
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